Jan 28, 2026 | Blog, Pain
As a psychologist, I’ve noticed a distinctly human instinct to rank, compare, and quantify our suffering. We often feel pressure to justify our pain, wondering if it’s “bad enough” to warrant attention. People ask, “What is the most painful thing in the world?”...
Jan 23, 2026 | Blog, Pain
It happens quietly at first, and then all at once. You wake up, and the familiar ache is there before you even open your eyes. You calculate how much energy you have for the day—subtracting the pain tax—and realize you’re already in the red. For many of my clients,...
Jan 21, 2026 | Blog, Illness, Mental Health
When a doctor introduces the concept of palliative care, the room often goes silent. For many patients and their families, this suggestion doesn’t feel like an offer of support; it feels like a door slamming shut. I want to speak directly to that moment of...
Jan 19, 2026 | Blog, Emotion Regulation, Illness, Mental Health
In my practice as a psychologist, I often work with highly intelligent, capable individuals who are used to solving problems. Whether they are executives, attorneys, or dedicated students, they approach life with a strategy. But when a serious illness enters the...
Jan 14, 2026 | Blog, Mental Health
It can be incredibly frightening when the world around you starts to feel unfamiliar, or when your own thoughts seem to turn against you. Depression is difficult enough on its own, but when depressive symptoms begin to distort your perception of reality, it can feel...
Jan 12, 2026 | Blog, Mental Health
For many people, the medical system is a place where we go to find healing. We seek answers, relief, and safety. But what happens when the very place meant to help becomes a source of deep distress? Medical trauma involves an ongoing or internal threat within a system...