Acute vs Chronic Conditions: How does your illness affect your mental health? As a psychologist, I often meet individuals who are not only managing medical conditions but also navigating the immense emotional weight that comes with them. Whether it’s a sudden injury...
Mental Health
From Doubt to Empowerment During Medical Gaslighting: Mastering Medical Self-Advocacy
Navigating the healthcare system can be challenging, especially when experiencing medical gaslighting. Many sensitive professionals I work with daily feel this stress. You might walk into a medical appointment armed with data about your health concerns, only to have...
Why Palliative Care Is Bad for Some Patients’ Mental Health and What Support Can Look Like Instead
When a doctor introduces the concept of palliative care, the room often goes silent. For many patients and their families, this suggestion doesn't feel like an offer of support; it feels like a door slamming shut. I want to speak directly to that moment of shock. If...
Comfort Care and Mental Health: Supporting Emotional Wellbeing When Medical Treatment Feels Overwhelming
In my practice as a psychologist, I often work with highly intelligent, capable individuals who are used to solving problems. Whether they are executives, attorneys, or dedicated students, they approach life with a strategy. But when a serious illness enters the...
Psychotic Depression Explained: When Severe Mental Health Symptoms Appear During Chronic Stress or Illness
It can be incredibly frightening when the world around you starts to feel unfamiliar, or when your own thoughts seem to turn against you. Depression is difficult enough on its own, but when depressive symptoms begin to distort your perception of reality, it can feel...
Medical Trauma: How Repeated Health Experiences Can Affect Mental Health and Trust
For many people, the medical system is a place where we go to find healing. We seek answers, relief, and safety. But what happens when the very place meant to help becomes a source of deep distress? Medical trauma involves an ongoing or internal threat within a system...
Situational Depression: When Life Events, Health Struggles, and Burnout Push You to the Edge
We like to believe that if we are smart enough, work hard enough, or prepare well enough, we can handle anything life throws at us. But sometimes, life events don’t just knock on the door; they kick it down. Whether it’s a sudden job loss, a chronic health diagnosis,...
Why Is Life So Hard? Understanding Mental Health When Illness, Pain, and Stress Collide
Sometimes, life just hurts. You wake up, and the weight of the world feels heavy on your chest before your feet even touch the floor. You might look around and wonder how everyone else seems to be managing fine while you feel like you are wading through quicksand. If...
How to Use a DBT Diary Card (Plus Tips to Make It Stick)
As a licensed psychologist working with highly sensitive, intelligent individuals, I often see clients who are incredibly high-functioning in their careers—whether in business, tech, or law—yet struggle silently with intense emotions. Many of the professionals I work...
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